Knowing what you like.
It hardly makes any difference what it is specifically. But when you know what you want, when you’re certain, and you can tell me, or show me, that is hot.
Trust me, it’s not that I’m lazy or that I don’t feel like being in charge. It’s the energy that you produce by knowing. It’s irresistible.
I know it’s not always easy. Sometimes you know exactly what you want, but you only hint at it. Hints don’t work for me. Hints put the ball in my court, and what turns me on is the ball being in your court. Make me come and get it.
Maybe you are nervous about this idea. I’ll bet you think that it won’t work, that I’ll change my mind at the last second.
Try it. Tell me in advance: I want you to suck my cock tonight as soon as the kids are in bed. Or, I want you to ride me on the sofa in the playroom. Or you could send me a picture. Whatever. As soon as you plant the idea in my mind, I want it.
It becomes all that I can think about.
And that is really hot.