Dear Mark

Please read this. Substitute “wife” for “girlfriend.”

I think it’s really helpful.

He gives other advice here, but some of it is a little extreme for my tastes. I’m really only interested in submitting to you inside the bedroom.

What do you think?


P.S. Thanks, Dom with Pen.


  1. Mark says:

    I have been reading it this week. Whether or not it actually works for either (or both) of us, well, I think it’s actually less clear right now. I’m sure there’s a certain element, a certain fantasy, that you like. But if even the little things I do to take control (pushing you against a wall, or picking out your clothes) aren’t working – if you’re response is to be a bratty sub – then the idea (and my motivation) to push it further diminishes.

    Think of me as Pavlov’s dog – if you ring the bell, there must be food.

    As an aside, I once dated a bratty girl (not a sub), and in hindsight I wish I had ended it sooner. Flirty = cute and sexy. Bratty = obnoxious and tiresome.

    • Jenna says:

      Please, read it again, and don’t get discouraged. Don’t be too serious about it.

      I want you to figure out what you LIKE. That’s what I want to do.

      Yes, you once dated a bratty girl. She wasn’t me.