My list

Mark promised me that there were no rules, so here goes:

Bruce Willis. There is something sad and mischievous about his face that is just so hot. Plus, he’s bald.



James Gandolfini. Okay, it is a bit of a downer that he passed away this year, but he still is near the top of my list. As Tony Soprano, he showed that he could be a dirty tough guy and a loving husband, both at once.

James Gandolfini. photo: Barry Wetcher


Seth Myers. He made me laugh a contact lens out of my eye when we saw him live earlier this year. I can only imagine what it would be like to be alone with him.



Dan Savage. He just looks like he would be up for anything. Maybe he’s not all gay.



Anne Hathaway. But Mark already knew that. I won’t discriminate on her hair. I’d probably mostly want to look at her.



This guy. He’s a hottie, yes. But there’s more to him than that. He knows what he wants out of life, he goes after it, but he doesn’t get wrapped up in it. That’s sexy.



Then there’s N. His writing cracked me open. He made me look inside and see what else was there. I don’t have a picture and I don’t even know what he looks like, but he’s lurking here on my list anyway.

And I’d be lying if I didn’t mention the tall, handsome dad in the kindergarten playground, and the mom with the cool tattoos. Don’t worry, Mark. Seriously.

So, you might notice that unlike Mark, I don’t have a type. My attractions are varied, and they pop up unexpectedly, out of nowhere. I’m not attracted to one particular type of body, or one particular type of person. If you make me think, I will probably like you. If you make me laugh, I will definitely like you. And if you make me feel, well, I’m yours.

It does feel good to post again.




  1. Hubman says:

    I’m flattered to be included in this list 🙂

    And it’s good to see you blogging again, I’ve missed seeing you

  2. Mark says:

    I think you do have a type, actually. The difference is that my type is visual, but yours is emotional. Your list is comprised of people who make you feel differently, who mentally stimulate you. Mine is of those who visually stimulate me. I know I’m generalizing, but maybe it’s just the difference between what men and women want.

    There are a few I could to my list that I see regularly. But unlike Hubman or N, they don’t have aliases, and given that they all work at the same place, it might get weird if they ever came across the comments. So for those, you’ll just have to ask me face-to-face if you really want to know 😉